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My Grammy Thomas was funny, cute, talkative, and creative, with a style all her own. Rarely, if ever,
did she wear clothing that was entirely store-bought. Part of an old sheer nightgown might become sleeves for a dress.
A lace doily might end up as a collar or cuffs, and a bedspread could become chair upholstery. Her family was her greatest treasure. Grammy was born Frances Alice Neal, October 30, 1890 in Columbus City, Iowa on the "wrong side of the tracks". Daughter of a devout church woman and an often tipsy poolhall owner, she graduated high school in Wapello, Iowa. She studied an additional year at "Normal" school, then spent several years teaching all elementary grades in a one-room schoolhouse. Sometimes she had trouble disciplining, as many of the children were bigger than her "almost five feet" stature.
Maybe those who didn't have a chance to know her can get an idea of her personality from some of the poems she wrote: |
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FRUSTRATION
Sometimes life seems an awful mess, | ![]() |
| Chicago, January 5, 1952 That's Grandad, who was 6'2", holding me. Grammy, in heels, did her best to reach 5 feet. It took Grammy several years to convince her mother-in-law that she was good enough for her son, Carl, but she was finally fully accepted. Fae and Carl were married 72 years when he passed away. After that her only wish was to join him. She got her wish a couple of years later, on January 3, 1988, at the age of 97. | |
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OLD AGE
My hair is gray, that once was brown, Frances Neal Thomas, 1976 |
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| New Year's Day, 1954 Grammy with me and cousins Randy and Neal. I'm not sure she ever saw all four of her natural grandchildren at one time. | |
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| The whole "Thomas" clan 1/1/1954 |
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